[{"id": 89800, "created": "2016-03-01T13:30:16.136322", "project_id": 212, "task_id": 40485, "user_id": 427, "user_ip": null, "finish_time": "2016-03-01T13:30:16.136348", "timeout": null, "calibration": null, "external_uid": null, "media_url": null, "info": {"other": "", "translation": "2.) It is in this position that we want to place the topic of this paper, for compensation: Being able to understand. Our expectations of a happy and sunny future of experiences together with our loved ones will be very high. The first task we will have to impose on ourselves is to not set the stakes to high. Let us anticipate small disappointments in this respect or the other. Of all personal things waiting for us at home, we have only the best notions. Our wives appear here, from afar, and with justice, at their best. They may not be young and radiant anymore when we return after such a long time. Grief and sorrow may have altered their features as well. Let us not be impressed by that. Let us look into the core of their personality which must still be crucial for us. Let us understand everything that has moved them in our time of absence and which they may not get away from so easily. Let us give their tested nerves time for relaxation and recreation. Let us convince them anew with all our advantages with which we gained their affection for the first time back then. Let us then, like at that time, begin our cohabitation full of mutual sympathy, respect and love. And if they have carried it to the extremes, to infidelity, let us not make overhasty and injust decisions. First, let us investigate, and only after a thorough investigation, let us decide firmly but fairly. In this let us not demand more from our wife that we ourselves have been willing to give.\r\n\r\nWhen we acquainted ourselves with these common thoughts and furthermore consider to this effect everything that deserves respect in our special case, we may be spared many a disappointment, then we may rebuild a cohibition in our marriage which correlates with its essence.\r\n\r\nGustav Berkner\r\nHostel Newclose\r\n\r\nEquality is always the firmest band of love.\r\nLessing"}}, {"id": 91166, "created": "2016-03-08T19:16:37.649513", "project_id": 212, "task_id": 40485, "user_id": null, "user_ip": "184.162.142.39", "finish_time": "2016-03-08T19:16:37.649545", "timeout": null, "calibration": null, "external_uid": null, "media_url": null, "info": {"other": "", "translation": "All0"}}]